What I'm loving/hating right now...

LOVE: Lindsay "I-don't-give-a-fuck" Lohan.

Dude, I'm LinsLo's #1 fan. I think she's legit and warrants more attention from feminists in general. I know you're thinking that I have no idea what the fuck I'm talking about. Let me break it down for you: as much as the media and everyone else gives her bullshit, she's successful and rich. Motherfuckers hate to see that, first of all. She's been constantly scrutinized by people who hate that she does whatever the fuck she wants and objectified by the media as a sex object. People who subscribe to this image of purity for young women have talked shit about her over and over again. In fact, I think almost all the scrutiny this woman has faced has been sexist.

Does Lindz have a substance abuse problem? Well, I don't know her, so I can't tell you. (And neither can anyone else but her-so don't get it twisted) Does she have weight problems? Well, yes, we can see that. Has she been figuring out her sexuality? Yep, we can see that too-she did, after all, have an LTR with a girl. People were pissed about that, too. Oh no! One of our beautiful starlets doesn't want some dick? She's a whore!! Does she have a crazy family that she has to struggle with and beef with, only to have some of them there right by her side in hard times? Yep, we can see that from the pictures, too. It seems to me like other young women go through similar struggles all the time, and face similar scrutiny, they just don't face that scrutiny in the public eye like she does. She's no role model, that's for sure, but her personal struggles make her-at least her image-a relateable character. I want to see her figure it all out and be okay in the end, you know? And as far as all you naysayers go? All I can say is leave lindsay a-lohan.

Some more loves: Vice magazine, cooking, Britney Spears(same reasons as lindslo), mango salsa, sangria, lil' wayne(this is a guilty pleasure, as I can derive very little value out of his sexist work other than some ill rhymes), mainstream hip hop in general (which many other feminists struggle with), the twilight series(still struggling with themes of abstinence-why is this sweet vampire series tainted with such hogwash?), slumdog millionaire(just wrote a 20 page research paper about how this movie misrepresents and homogenizes the Indian experience, especially for Indian women), high heels, america's next top model, and of course fashion magazines (I know everyone is way too fucking skinny in there, but I don't really have the means or authority to change that, so let me just recognize that and roll with the punches).


HATE: Tyra Banks

I'm pretty sure Tyra Banks is my nemesis. Listen, I know that you're thinking that Tyra is the least evil of all the cra-zos in the world (Limbaugh, Bush, abortion clinic bombers, libertarians), and should be the least of our worries. Not true, I say. She may not have any political clout, but she sure is popular-in fact, I can't seem to get the fuck away from her. I think the fact that she tries to be sweet and caring and "socially concious" is what is most dangerous-because I think all she does is reinforce every stereotype, like, ever. She has her own show, which, according to the website tyrashow.com, Tyra "provides young women with the girlfriend they want to hang out with and the role model that they need". Oh, gag me. I think Tyra is homophobic, a slut-shamer, and an awfully poor role model when it comes to body image and women. Ugh, Tyra, you can't fool me. I watched ANTM and I saw how you kicked London off for being too fat. You say you want to promote different body images, but that's how you do it? And have you ever seen her do "social experiements" on her show-where, for instance, she put a number of different sex workers in a room and made them fight over their positions in the "town"-except they were not all very good positions, some of them were janitor and shit like that. Nobody wants to be a fucking janitor, Tyra, way to incite a catfight and de-crease solidarity among women. That's just one example. I almost started a blog just to blast Tyra Banks every day, but thought better of it because I can only take so much negativity. What really pisses me off about Tyra is that she can't possibly be that fucking stupid. She can't. She knows she's a role model and she knows what issues ail young women, but she just continues to perpetuate stereotypes about women, help people look "better", and participate in a bunch of slut-shaming(she loves slut-shaming so, so much-This week on Tyra: "weekday soccer moms, weekday strippers"). Also, let's take into account the position of the speaker about these issues: Tyra, you're filthy fuckin' rich, you're a supermodel, and you didn't even finish high school because you were sooo busy with modeling. Give me a break dude, how can you possibly know shit about the average American teen girl? Plus, I'm still pissed that "creepy chan" didn't win the last cycle of ANTM.

Other evils: crispy bacon, puppy mills, young people getting married, libertarians, creepers, and all the other run of the mill shit you would expect: conservatives, pro lifers, super god people, etc etc etc.

So it has occured to me...

So it has occurred to me that people often don't peg me as a feminist, even though it's one of the main ways I identify myself, and it's also my focus at school. While I hate that people have a preconceived notion of what a feminist should be like, I like the fact that being myself and putting myself out there as a feminist really shatters those notions. I'm an avid blog reader, but haven't had the gumption to put together one for myself-until now. Blogging has always seemed really self-indulgent to me, especially in the days of the livejournal(remember that?), but more and more people are blogging less about themselves and more about their perspectives on issues and current events-which is a little bit more my style than whining about my neurotic-ism. I started this blog to give my perspective-a feminist, working-class perspective-on all kinds of current issues... current events, books, politics, pop culture(the usual fare for feminist bloggers) and also (an apparently controversial) topic in feminism, fashion.

A Google search of terms "feminist fashion" and "feminism and fashion" does not yield many blogs from fashion-friendly feminists-in fact, it brings more criticism of fashion from feminists. I'm not mad about it; I think that it's important for women in general, including feminists, to have some level of solidarity. But there's some discourse that is missing around fashion and feminism, and other "floofy" topics. This is less of a rebuttal to those who criticize the role of fashion in feminism, but more of an open invitation to watch, learn, and discuss. As a third-wave feminist, I know, I'm lax and loopy. I like sappy pop songs and tv shows, I watch basic cable and like it (mostly), I read fashion magazines(not always as a happy reader in agreeance) and sometimes even follow the trends. I like Sex and the City. Yep, I'm one of those feminists.

But the truth is, as bad as these things can be, I do not subscribe to a separatist theory. There's no way for pro-woman ideas to spread in society unless they are the mainstream-and one way to make feminist ideas more mainstream is for these ideas and the women who believe in them to become accessible to anyone and flow into the mainstream. As bell hooks said, feminism is for everybody. As it should be! Sexism is everywhere. Are we gonna just ignore the shit that's going on and retreat to Women's Studies courses and Ani DiFranco songs, or are we going to get out there and be who we are and believe what we believe everywhere we are in the world? And isn't a part of being who we are as feminists calling bullshit on the sexism in popular culture/books/current events/politics etc? Recognizing sexism in our everyday lives is the first step to creating radical social change.

Audre Lorde said that the master's tools will never dismantle the master's house. At this point in my life, I tend to disagree. This blog is a manifestation of that idea.